I Don't Know What To Do - Comments

Yeah, the other two are right. you need to put yourself first. thats how i look at it. it may be difficult but if its what you feel you need to do, then its the right thing for you.
good luck.
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If I were you I'd think about what I really wanted, putting his feelings aside until you can realize what's best for you.

If you decide that you no longer want to be in a relationship with him, that's perfectly okay. Just let him know that even though you're not ready for that relationship, it doesn't mean you don't care about him and make sure he knows that you'll be there for him.

Simply put - you do you.

That's just what I would do, though. Good luck.

Your feelings in any relationsihp will evolve. That's normal. Eventually you move out of the honeymoon phase and it's no longer about being non-stop infatuated with the person, but that doesn't mean it's over... unless you want it to be.

Don't leave him because you feel like you have no choice. And don't stay with him because you feel trapped by the possibility that he may hurt himself. The only thing that you should base your decision on is your own desire to move on. If you're not happy, then you're not happy, and that's your question answered.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

Cheers,

Aelf.