April 24th, 2010 at 02:54pm
Unfortunately, guys are like this, even when you're married.
They don't really think the way girls do and so he's not going to know that you want him to say certain things to you when he comes back home. He's a...well, a guy. You need to sit down and talk to him and try and make the marriage work. No offense, but if you're willing to consider giving up just because he doesn't pay much attention to you, then did you ever really love him in the first place? Marriage isn't a wonderland. It's heartbreak a few times mixed with good times. Sorry to say it, but that's what it is.
And if you're 20, you should know how to type in a way that's easier to read and not so filled with chat speak. Capitalization and punctuation are your friends.
I don't know you, but self-evaluate first. Have you done your part? Like do you say hello first? If you felt like you have done your part and you can't give anymore but he's still like that, still ignoring you... then you probably should hold off on the marriage thing. I also think you should talk to someone older and more experienced about this kind of thing. What about your parents, other relatives or older friends? You can pm me if you think it'll help, but I'm not someone older, unfortunately.