Is this really my fault? - Comments

Idk, you have a point but I think if I was in her situation i'd be pretty bummed too

v. I guess you're right, thanks!

v. well if you've explained the circumstances to her, then all you can really do is give her time, I mean, you can't force her to come around.

AliceSeesAll. That's a good idea but we would only have a few hours.

harper I told her we could do something another day but she thinks that's still not good enough..So I don't know what to do now.

I can see how she could misunderstand what you said, but I mean, hey. It's her birthday and you're her friend, and I would want to hang out with my friend on my birthday too. So I mean, she' probably irked, but try to make it up to her by hanging out with her just the two of you another day.

Ok, then. I don't think its your fault. Maybe try asking her to change the day, or can you hang out with her after camp?

v. I didn't say we could hang out on her birthday. I just said we could hang out. She's the one who chose the day...

If you told her you could hang out on her birthday, then I could see why she'd be upset.
But thats what happens when you start working. Sometimes plans have to change. It doesn't look good to just skip out on a job on short notice.