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v. Awesome! :D
Good for you!!!!

UPDATE: I just got off the phone with him and he isnt mad...he alughed and said he was relieved it wasnt something worse. I feel so much better :)

Honestly you guys, thank you all so much..if there is ANYTHING i can do for you all, just let me know...I owe each and every one of you

If he really liked you, I think he'd be glad that you felt comfortable enough to tell him (even if it was some time after the fact), and he should also be understanding because it sounded like an incredibly bad situation to be in, and he should be okay with it. You did what you could to get away, and you did. Don't beat yourself up about it too much, and if he leaves you over something small like this, maybe he isn't the best guy for you.

If you really feel like you have to tell him, then just go ahead and tell him. He'll probably get pissed that you didn't trust him enough to tell him last time but, if he's as great as you described him, I'm sure he'll understand and get over it.

If you really feel like you should tell him, do it. It's only going to eat at you if you don't. You did absolutely nothing wrong, and I really believe that if your boyfriend is as nice and amazing as you say he is, then he will understand.

Like GhostieWinchester said, tell him about it the way you said it here. You didn't want the attention, but this stupid guy kept pushing himself on you. What happened was harassment, not cheating.

I wish you the best of luck with everything that happens. :) I'm sure your boyfriend will understand, and that you'll feel better once you've talked to him.

I agree with rebecca.

Thanks you guys...really. I appreciate all your help

VVV.
He is awesome and I really hope he understands...Im just afraid he will be angry I lied to him. From day one he said lying was the thing he hated most and I told a big lie... I dont know if he will leave me..or if he will even trust me again...

yeeeaaaah, well look.. my opinion is that you shouldn't say anything since so much time has passed.. and he most likely will get mad because you weren't honest with him..

Now, on the other side, why would you feel guilty or bad? unless you did something.. but you stated that you didn't so hey, blow it off.. nothing happened, just, make sure not to leave something so important out next time and tell him what's up if something important does happen next time. I hope this helps..

and i say i suggest you didnt tell him anymore cause i did the same thing with another thing and my bf got pretty pissed cause i didn't have the enough trust to tell him suppos..

I think you should just tell him, and if he loves you and trusts you then he'll understand. You shouldn't keep that from him. Hope I helped.

v. Anytime! :D
If he's as awesome of a guy as you say, I'm sure he'll be understanding.
And I commend you for feeling the need to tell him. It's great that you feel that urge to be 100% honest, even about things that weren't your fault. :3

GhostieWinchester thanks...you made me feel better about telling him

It's entirely up to you.
It really depends on how your boyfriend takes things.
But I'm sure if you really feel like you need to tell him to get it out, you should.

Just explain it the way you did there. It's clearly NOT your fault that that happened. You did all you could to get the other guy to leave you alone, so it's not like you were cheating on him.

I'm sure hhe'd understand, if you decided to bring it up.