I hate Facebook. - Comments

v Well atleast we're not alone. Hah.

trust me, I know how you feel >_>

AmorarEsDeVivir
Thanks. It means a lot that you just took the time to talk to me.
And everything you're saying makes perfect sense and I'll remember everything you said and hopefully things will get better fast!
Thanks again, though. (:

Unfriend him lol.

v Things do get a lot easier when you're out of high school. There's so much drama and cattiness in high school, and you can't exactly easily avoid people you'd rather not deal with. Not to mention, any future dating prospects are a hell of a lot more mature. =P

Just trust me, don't cling to that for the sole reason that you're scared you won't find better, because you will. Know how he treats you, and know what you deserve. Maybe someday he'll grow up and things will work out. Maybe they won't. In the meantime, live your life for YOU, not for him or anyone else, and whatever happens romantically will happen at the right time.

AmorarEsDeVivir

It's fine.

I agree, and that's why we broke up because we had both changed and it just wasn't working out anymore. He was always so good to me so it's really hard to think that he would ever act like this.

Thanks. I do sorta feel like I'll never find anyone else and I need to stop. It might be easier if my friends weren't idiots too, who make plans with me then don't answer my texts. Haha. I just need to be out of high school..

And, I'll have to do that.

if you ask me, it all sounds like he still loves you and hurts a lot over it and from this hurt, he drinks and gets wasted. Just because he doesn't show it to you doesn't mean he's over you. Some people just cling to their exes like glue and some pretend they don't care when they're dying inside, you know? If he loved you enough to quit drinking than i'm sure its certainly capable to love you enough to drink his problems again.

v OH WOW. I totally read that as three months, my bad! I apologize. My situation is totally different from yours, then, for that aspect alone.

The thing is, no one is who they're going to be for the rest of their lives when they're 13-16. So keep in mind that you and he are different people than you were when you started dating. He may not be who he said he was. Or maybe at one point he was, but he changed. It happens. It hurts, but it's part of life.

You WILL find someone better. No matter how good you think a relationship was, never hold on to it for fear that you won't find something just as good, because it will happen. He may have been good to you at one point, but he isn't good to you or for you anymore.

Isadora Pierce is right. Delete him, delete people who don't shut up about him, get him out of your life if he's treating you this badly, because you deserve better.

AmorarEsDeVivir
Yeah, pretty much the same thing here. He said we'd stay friends, but that's not happening.
He's a jerk.
And, it was three years, not three months. So it's even harder.

My first break-up was when I was 17; we had been dating exactly three months. He swore up and down that it was a really hard decision for him but he felt it was for the best, and he wanted to stay friends.

Within a week he was ignoring me at work, talking about other women, etc.

Take it from the voice of experience: If he's acting like those three months meant nothing, if he's moved on that quickly, the honest truth is that he DIDN'T care about you like he said he did. And that sounds harsh against you until you realize, that means he's a liar, on top of being an asshole, and you deserve better.

Do you want to be with someone who would string you along? Do you miss him, or who you wanted him to be?

Three months isn't a very long relationship, but it's hard because it's the first one. You have A LOT of time to find someone A LOT better than what you've had. Get out there, live your life in whatever way makes you happiest, and wait until someone who's actually worth your time comes along to devote yourself to someone.

Delete him? Delete people who talk about him a lot?