I like not having sex with someone I'm not sentimentally attached with. - Comments

I've seen it happen. I don't hate the girls who do it, though, because I guess it reflects some inner low self esteem sorta thing. They need to change or do things for a guy's attention and they don't see that being exactly who they are will get them the right guy, anyway. I dunno.

I've done it though; although not like hugely. I've pretended to really suck at billiard (pool) because I liked this guy and wanted him to 'teach' it to me. haha. I've pretended to have no idea what a guy was talking about so that he could explain something a little more. Most of my relationships never go past the two month mark though, so yeah ... bad advice person right hurr. lolol.

@Melamone OMG did she seriously tell you that!? I've had family tell me that because I don't smoke or drink and have piercings. They ALWAYS get mad because I tell them whoever I end up with will love me for me. With or without piercings, with bad and good habits. Nobody should change to please anyone but themselves.

I know what you mean. So many girls in my school do this. I brought this up once to a friend of mine and she was just like "and this is why you're still single."
Hey, at least if I end up finding a guy, I'll know that the guy is really into me and not just the me that I present out to him, because that's never going to turn into a good relationship.

I feel the same way! Girls are like all over the place here, it's annoying. Even my best friend who I love, just disappoints me in that department. Like she gave up her you know what, and then a couple days later the guy broke up with her and got with her sister, it's just sad more than anything. It's just sad because she feels the need to be loved given her and her mother don't have the greatest relationship. I just think girls should value their 'innocence' a bit more. I can't talk too much since I am pregnant, but at least I'm still in a great relationship with the same and only person.
But yeah girls shouldn't change themselves, like my friend by getting drunk and doing some stupid crap to impress her boyfriend >.<

It sucks, it honesty does. And when you try to talk to them about it, they act like they dont know what your talking about or get mad at you. :/

I know :/ I have a few friends that have changed for someone

I can't stand girls like that. Thinking they have to change who they are just so a guy will look at them or be with him. There's no way I will change who I am just so I can be with a guy, I would rather be singel and happy then having to change.

It's sad my friend change because of her boyfriend. She never smoke until she started dating him. She never did a lot of things until she dated him. Sad that girls think they need to change who they are so they can get a guy.