So I've just ruined everything. - Comments

Sorry I posted that twice.

Sorry I posted that twice.

Sorry I posted that twice.

For a while my boyfriend and I fought or argued about things day in and day out.. it would be multiple times a day sometimes about different things. I got tired of it and told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like our relationship was right and that we needed to work on things or take a break. So we sat down for hours and talked about what was bothering us and why we thought these arguments kept happening... we came to the conclusion that we were just spending too much time in each others company and while that may work out for some people it didn't for us.. Do you think that maybe that could be your problem? If not what do you think it is? Talk to him. That's all that will solve anything. Even if he's stubborn about things like I was or you are... you guys if you truly love each other you need to sit down and listen to each other.

For a while my boyfriend and I fought or argued about things day in and day out.. it would be multiple times a day sometimes about different things. I got tired of it and told my boyfriend that I didn't feel like our relationship was right and that we needed to work on things or take a break. So we sat down for hours and talked about what was bothering us and why we thought these arguments kept happening... we came to the conclusion that we were just spending too much time in each others company and while that may work out for some people it didn't for us.. Do you think that maybe that could be your problem? If not what do you think it is? Talk to him. That's all that will solve anything. Even if he's stubborn about things like I was or you are... you guys if you truly love each other you need to sit down and listen to each other.

I don't want to live without him, he's my everything. "I may argue a lot with him but he makes me a better person. I've never smiled so much with anyone except him. I wish I could just wake up and all this be a dream but I can't stop crying."
Did you tell him that? Make sure he fully understands how much you care for him. Sadly, I'm going through almost the exact same thing with my boyfriend at the moment....I love him to death, and I hope for the best. You should too. Keep your head up, hun.
And always remember, things get worse before they get better. Good luck, I really hope you guys can work something out...<3