She Mourns and I'm Not Allowed To. - Comments

  • folie a dru.

    folie a dru. (1270)

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    She's a nonempathetic person who requires maintenance and attention. Not trying to be mean, just stating what I gather from what you said. Next time she does something like that, don't give her what she needs. You don't have to be mean, but you can excuse yourself. And when he asks about it, explain that you can't give someone all your energy/sympathy/whatever and get nothing back because it's draining.
    July 3rd, 2012 at 12:11am
  • not here anymore

    not here anymore (150)

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    Have you thought of talking to her about it? Maybe she doesn't realize she's doing it.
    July 2nd, 2012 at 08:57pm