I need your help.... - Comments

No, you completely get what I'm meaning and that makes a nice change from blank looks or swing and round abouts conversations.
I think what's bothering me is what needs to be said. From experience a lot isn't said.

I think I understand what you are saying. That is something you have to figure out for yourself what your smut preference is, you know? After you figure that out, you can pick and choose techniques to develop your own form of "smut-writing." If I completely misunderstood you, ignore this, haha

That's fantastic. I'm so glad someone has replied and given some useful advice. I'm just worried in case it's too...smutty? Does that even make sense?

I would look to other authors for inspiration since you are new on the subject. Just try a quick search of "smut" into the stories search bar. You can learn a thing or two from them. I think a lot of people have actually written journals and articles about what they like and hate about certain things in smut so you could search that term here in the blogs section as well.