Something that REALLY gets me mad... - Comments

Yeah I can see your point. I guess reading your blog too was the straw that broke the camel's back for me on here lol. I didn't say I'm taking a break just because of you. A week or so ago some shit went on and people blew stuff way out of the water. I'm trying to stay positive and not think about the people who said stuff, but....it's hard when all I see on here are blogs moaning about what words they hated in smutty stories, what fandoms they personally hate, or people finding wrong with anything and everything....all the negativity is just tiring and I'm started to be stressed more than have fun on here. I know it can only get me down if I let it, but like I said, it's tough when negativity is just everywhere. I feel like maybe I'm even starting to become one of the negative people by saying what I dislike about the people who say THEY dislike stuff too. So you see, it's an endless, quickly addicting cycle. =/ I just need a few days to clear my head I guess.

I really didn't mean to offend you, I just sometimes feel like people are ganging up on me at times combined with all the negative blogs I see. Thanks for being understanding. I need to watch what I say more or maybe just stop saying much.

@ xMandiblesx
Alright, well maybe I took it wrong. I'm sorry, but you're not the first person who's done this to me, so I guess seeing your blog drew the line for me. Like honestly it felt like you were talking about me, but it got me mad, because you clearly asked what we liked about the sex scene and I didn't want to lie. But I guess I mis understood you and I'm sorry.

Honestly though, dealing with this shouldn't make you want to stop writing or leave the site. You're suppose to write because it's for you. Not for anybody else. Having people read and enjoy your stories is just a plus. If you only write for people, then it's not fun. It feels like more of a job. So please don't stop writing because I made a blog post out off anger/irritation. I'll take it down if you want me to. Again, I'm sorry.

So this is real nice to find. I honestly wasn't even referring to you or your comment, if it had anything to do with you at all it was just reminding me of that term in general because you are not the first person to use it in reference to stories or other matters.

Maybe I didn't word my things right but I honestly wasn't talking about you whatsoever. I would openly admit if I was and the main content of my blog was referring to people who hate certain words used in smut.

I even tried to generalize the issue to be sure no one took it personally because that's not how I intended it. If I had a problem with your comment or was personally offended by it, I would have said so, but in my comments in response to your comment on my story the other night, I wasn't mad or pissed or anything.

Here's what I said in my blog today that you may have mistaken.

"Also...what exactly makes a sex scene more "professional?" I'm not understanding that term. I don't see why some people will sit and read smutty scenes that they dislike and then complain about them. I'm not speaking about anyone in particular I've just seen that term used several times in reference to racy or smutty stories."

I was asking the first sentence in the above statement as a generalized, question because I'm honestly curious. I want to know what each person exactly thinks makes a story more professional in their opinion. I also jammed my annoyance for when people read stories and complain about them, but that wasn't about you at all because you weren't complaining on my story comments at all. You simply stated what you disliked which is your right. A lot of other people complain about stories though and in a more....negative way also. That was just me jamming stuff together again which happens a lot because my mind is always racy.

I'm sorry if you thought I was referring to you and I can see how you would think that since I didn't word what I said right. I had already read a blog today that stated a specific user disliked a story because it wasn't professional.....so since several people are using the term, I'm curious.

It sucks that I have to watch EVERY LITTLE thing I say on this site now because someone is always going to take it the wrong way because I suck at wording shit, but oh well. I will continue to defend my intentions to be sure people understand them. I apologize.

I know what your talking about. It annoys me to, even though it has never happened to me.

@ NothingNews
Yeah, I know. Not very mature of me. Just thought the only way I could get it through is if I stooped to her level.

Complaining about complaining about complaints.
Heh.

AMEN!