Would you do this to your child? - Comments

@ light 'em up.
bitch, first off... who cares about money.. and dont ever bring up my bd like that... you the one who's stuck with this problem not me... hahaha... and too damn bad... if u dont like my opinion dont post retarted shit on here.... and im not saying he's a bad dad... and i hope she keeps them cuz who would want to be with a sensitive ass man like that... hahahah.... he knew better than to fuck a bitch without a condom... now he has to deal with it... case closed... dueces....

@ God's_Child22
Have you read my blog, at all? My boyfriend pays $800 a month, four hundred for each child. It does not fucking matter who he knocked up in the past as long as he's taking care of his children now. They are sisters, it doesn't matter if they're adopted, half or full, they're still sisters.
For you to say something like that is extremely rude and disrespectful. And you wonder why your child's father hasn't done anything. For you to say something that is so ignorant. My boyfriend is fighting his child's mother for custody, because he doesn't have to take $400 out of his paycheck every month to make sure his daughter has food in her stomach and clothes on her back. He doesn't have to drive three hours every other weekend just to see her for maybe an hour at the most. My boyfriend could be a deadbeat, but he isn't. He does his best. And it's not his fault that Jenna, the only other woman besides me, that he's introduced to his oldest, does not want her to be around her sister. She's the one being uncooperative and taking his money without letting him see his daughter unless it's convenient for her.

the reason I am saying that is because my baby daddy hasnt done shit for his future son... So I don't blame her... I'm not gonna keep my son from him but if another bitch is around him, then I will... But that's my opinion....

well, i kinda agree with the baby mama because i wouldnt want my daughter around another bitch's child... im pregnant and I told my baby daddy that my son better be the only one u have because he won't be seeing his kid if another bitch got pregnant by him... Thats how I handle it.... And with the other guy being called daddy.. I can't tell u anything about that.... That's her business.... if your dude wants to bring it up to her... then tell him to bring it up to her... Don't cry about it...

@ EdWiN.isamonster
I know. She pisses me off to no end. Her keeping Emily away from my boyfriend and Ava isn't doing anyone any good. Just causing stress and problems that aren't necessary . /:

@ Brian Haner Jr
I know. I've told my boyfriend he needs to go to court, but he's a stubborn person. I just have the eerie feeling that Jenna is letting Emily call someone else daddy, instead of my boyfriend.

It sounds to me like Jenna is doing it because she knows either way, she'll get money out of your boyfriend. If he wants to see his daughter, he needs to cut payments, not up them. There's a good chance Emily isn't even getting any of the money your boyfriend does shell out. It's a horrible thing to think of someone, but I've seen it happen before. She's basically holding Emily at ransom because she knows he'll pay either way. He needs to go to court. Even if he thinks it's a bad idea, he needs to. If he's worried she'll flip out and take it out on Emily, then what's stopping her from doing that with anything else? If she'd really do something like that, then he needs to go for custody and get that little girl out of there.

Wow, I hate women like that. If the father of the child is willing to do whatever it takes to make sure his children are happy then, despite her disorder, she shouldn't feel the need to keep his daughter from him. Ugh-- I'm sorry but she disgusts me.

@ Polite Stranger
Hey, your sister and I have the same name, lol. I'm sorry your mom is doing that, it's not fair :/

He could, but like I've said, he doesn't want to stress Jenna out. According to him, because I've only met Jenna maybe two or three times, when she's under pressure, she snaps. Flies into a rage and just has a really big adult tantrum, basically. He's scared that she might take that out on Emily, which is why he won't do anything else. I've never seen Jenna have one of her fits, but I understand why he's scared for Emily. I dunno if Jenna is on medication for whatever she has, it's none of my business. I just hope she stops this crap and stops it soon.

@ writingismypassion23
Thank you! I will surely let him know.

I do pray things get better for everyone, it seems like Jenna is going through a hard time and taking it out on those who deserve it the least. Let your boyfriend know you're in my prayers <3

No offense taken. My little sister, Ashlee knows about her older sister. She wants to meet her so much, but my mom just keeps putting her foot down. It's ridiculous. Ashlee is mature and knows what's going on. Granted, neither Ashlee's nor my own father pay child support, but my mom says she doesn't care about that.

Is there any way your boyfriend could take Jenna to court?(I can't remember if you said anything about it in your blog)

@ lolita in love
There's not even a custody agreement. I mean, they never went to court for it. I've told him that's maybe what he needs to do. Try and get joint custody of Emily so he can start seeing his baby. He dotes on both of them and I do too, because I love them like my own. But I know he doesn't want Jenna to flip out because she can't handle stress and take it out on Em.

Like I said in the blog, I have the feeling Jenna is letting Emily call someone else daddy, because the last time she stayed with us, she called me "Ashy" but kept calling my boyfriend her "friend". Shit like that is so hurtful. I don't know why Jenna is doing this. It makes me want to pull my flippin' hair out.

@ Polite Stranger
No offense to your mother, but I don't agree with her decision. I just don't. Ava and Emily know about each other, but Jenna is keeping Emily from Ava. It sucks. My boyfriend has never done anything wrong to Jenna, or anyone really. He pays $800 a month in child support voluntarily because he knows his kids need it and he's not being a greedy ass.

I just don't see what Jenna is gaining from keeping Emily from Ava. It's not going to be good in the end. I can speak from experience.

@ light 'em up.
Yes, I did! :) Glad you like it.

I know it must be tough not to really have a say in anything because they aren't yours. :/ Custody battles are very dirty and cruel. Definitely not fair to anyone involved, least of all the kids. It sounds like the mother is just being like this for herself, because it's definitely not benefiting Emily at all.

My little sister is actually going through something like this. My mom wants to wait until she's older like she did with my dad and I. My sister really wants to meet her half-sister.

Honestly, unless the father of my children did something really bad, I wouldn't forbid him from seeing my kids because he took part in creating them and that wouldn't be fair.

@ lolita in love
You made this? It's so simple, I love it.

I don't know why Jenna doesn't want Emily around Ava. She's never given him a good answer. Ava and Emily know about each other and Ava always asks "when is Emily coming over?" and we have to say "well, we don't know sweetheart."

It's heartbreaking. My boyfriend is going to shovel out more money each month now that he's gotten a raise to see if that will make Jenna let him see Emily. I don't know what to do myself, I can't exactly tell him where to go because this isn't my kid. He doesn't want to stress Jenna out because she doesn't handle stress well and she could take it out on Emily. It's one big mess and I wish she'd just stop so it would quit tearing my boyfriend apart. It's tearing apart and I have to sit back and watch the people I love suffer.

:D You're using a layout I made.

Why the hell doesn't she want her kid around his other little girl? That's kind of ridiculous. When she gets older she's just gonna wanna know who her half-sister is anyways.