Sex - Comments

Well... That was wow...
I can understand where you're coming from. I am engaged and I am a virgin *victory dance* and yet I see people use it for a confidence boost or to numb emotions. They're is nothing wrong with not liking sex. In my opinion I think sex is a wonderful gift that should only be used in marriage. That's just my opinion. I loved this blog by the way.

A similar thing happened to me with a girl once. And I feel the same way when I think of other people having sex. I think the way that they do it, the reasons they do it for, are disgusting. But I imagine ideal sex in my head with ideal people and its beautiful. If that makes sense.

I don't think there's anything wrong with disliking sex. However, I don't think girls do it to feel pretty. Some do, sure, and while I am sorry to hear about your girlfriend cheating on you - no one deserves that, ever - I don't think she would be saying that in her head. Having sex doesn't make someone pretty, or less pretty. I also don't think it's a misuse of a body either; animals (as in humans and animals alike) are meant to have sex. Not everyone, no; that's a personal choice and some decide not to, nothing wrong with that. I could understand maybe calling rape a "misuse" but not sex altogether.

These are just my opinions but I completely respect what you're saying.