What Are Your Thoughts Mibba? - Comments

@ ladyschrei
I know what you mean. I'm the same way

I don't know. I just feel bad for these kids that don't have homes, I've always wanted to give them some. But at the same time, I don't know if I'd be a good mom. Not saying I'd ever do anything to hurt my kids, but like... someone once before said they thought they'd be a bad mom because they're selfish, I kinda feel the same in a sense.

@ ladyschrei
That's really cool though like... why wouldn't anyone want to adopt ya know?

People used to think I was weird because in middle school I would say I wanted to adopt and everyone would ask me why I never wanted to have my own kids. I guess there isn't a real reason, I've wanted to adopt as long as I remember.

@ ladyschrei
When I used to want kids, I wanted to adopt.

No, not weird at all! I just never saw the appeal of having a baby for myself. Like I'm sure it's wonderful, but I'd rather not, honestly lol. And to me, there's so many kids needing homes, I'd like to give them some.

@ ladyschrei
I'm just weird I guess lol.

Honestly I've always wanted to adopt. Doing all that for nine months and then actually giving birth... yeah no, never appealed to me XD

@ ladyschrei
Yeah I'm pretty deadset on not wanting kids but its good to know I have options.

If it's something you still want when you're older, do it. I believe mothers who do that sort of thing also have a time limit to decide if they'd like to keep the baby, if you have it and decide you can't give it up. That's something you'd have to look into though. Surrogate mothers make a good amount of money, from what I've heard, but if you ever did decide to keep the baby, I don't think you'd get to keep the money.

@ Tholomew Plague
I know, I was thinking about that too... Also I Think I might be in danger of postpartum depression.

That could work, you'd just have to be careful not to form any sort of attachment. I think that would be the only issue.