Should I Confront My Friend? - Comments

  • James_Moriarty

    James_Moriarty (100)

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    It took a while but I just message him, but I said that I would rather talk in person! He hasn't replied yet but it hasn't been that long :/
    September 25th, 2014 at 09:51pm
  • Can you not.

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    Totally bro(:
    September 8th, 2014 at 10:28pm
  • Can you not.

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    Totally bro(:
    September 8th, 2014 at 10:28pm
  • James_Moriarty

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    @ Can you not.
    He is gay funnily enough ha I was the first person he told outside his family and I didn't tell anyone because he asked me not to but he's now hanging out with girl who did tell everyone before he was ready. I don't get him at all.

    I think I will send him a message thanks, I just needed someone to tell me if it was a good idea or not.

    I'll keep you posted if your interested :)
    September 8th, 2014 at 07:54pm
  • Can you not.

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    This may or may not help you but I went through a very similar experience with a guy friend of mine. He just seemed to have given up on our relationship. I talked to him about it, like physically sat him down and yelled at him for being a jerk to me because I was going through some shit (I too suffer with depression and sever anxiety/panic attacks in fact, side note, I felt a lot of what you said with the planning stuff and all that but anywho) and he came out of the closet to me. Granted I've known he was gay since I met the flaming idiot but that's beside the point. I realized that his shit was just as deep as my shit and blaming him for not being there was kinda selfish. We never 'got back together' per say but we're still friendly.

    I guess all I'm saying is to talk to this guy because ninety percent of the time there's a reason to douchebaggery. And if there isn't then he isn't worth your time. Find some other hotter friendlier guy friend who will pay for your concert tickets because he genuinely thinks you're a badass. On a happier note, my best friend and I were friends and then we disliked each other for a long time, but now we're stronger than ever. Maybe just give it some time. I don't know. I hope this helped you(: good luck and give him a nice slap for me for treating you like crap.
    September 8th, 2014 at 07:57am