Domestic Violence. - Comments

yes definatly. im out of the situation now. hes going to anger management and stopped drinking but we havent really talked. we wanna work things out eventually but for me not anytime in the near future.

You did the right thing in calling the police for your sons sake and yours you should feel safe and not scared all the time and for a guy to hit a women is really not okay . I know you love him and you wish things were different but I'm sorry to say he isn't good for you if he hits you that isn't right . My sister was in a abusive relationship for years and it wasn't nice hearing and seeing that but in the end even though it tool her years to realize she doesn't need him anymore yes she has a son with him but that doesn't mean she had to stay with him . I'm so sorry this is happening to you but you need to think about your son and yourself and remember you can do better and that he doesn't matter anymore because that isn't love being in a relationship like that . I hope you make the right choice and message me whenever if you need someone to talk to :)

No matter what he says, it is definitely not your fault. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I have a friend who has recently gotten out of an abusive relationship--for a long time it was only threats and then it got physical. And knowing what she went through...I know it's probably not my place to tell you what the right or wrong decision is, but I will say that in many cases, not taking action does not mean things "would be okay." I do think you made a justified and necessary call. You deserve to feel safe in a relationship, and you definitely deserve to feel like your son is safe. Stuff like this isn't fair to either of you.

Good luck with things.