@ oh bear Actually here, it's the male staff that get groped a lot. I legit had one of my workers come in almost puking coz some chick reached between his legs and basically mashed his penis. Poor dude, hahaha.
I'm taking notes because I don't really go up to the bars in clubs, my friends kind of just do it for me and I pay them back later. It was really interesting reading this blog because where I go clubbing you kind of just hang at the bar and wait until the bartender makes eye contact with you, which is basically staring at them. Otherwise you're usually seen as a bit of a twat.
Also the DJs that play here (not like the visiting celebrity ones though, obviously) mostly do take requests if you go up to him and ask for a song. But then I live in a uni town so that probably affects it.
I'd also like to add that if you're a fella that you should ABSOLUTELY NOT grope my butt randomly. Unless we're grinding / dancing. Then it's all g.
I'm almost afraid to try a fire shot. If I ever go to New Zealand to see you and we go to the club and you ask me to take a sip of one, you better have water prepared beforehand if it's hot even though I do as you say when you drink it because i might make a little mistake of opening my mouth and breathing in for a split second.