Premarital Sex - Comments

I definitely have to agree with Reverse Osmosis. Couldn't have said it any better myself.
With the whole age thing as well, I believe once you're an adult you should be able to make accurate decisions for yourself. Minors, I believe, don't understand the effects that could occur due to the "one-time" thing. Take my school, for example.

A girl my age, a tad bit older, had sex and got pregnant. Her life...is basically done. Not many people in my schools are virgins. I mean, I guess I like the idea of waiting until you're married, because it's more special due to the wait and what not and sharing something special like that with one person. Personally, I'd have to be in a long-term relationship to be able to do that with someone and fully trust them as well.

I'm not to sure,
I think for people to have sex they must care very deeply about one another, and not be majorly depressed, why? Because something like 40-60% of depression in teenagers is because of sex, it's a high, but all highs have lows.

I'm terrified of sex personally, and I won't have it until I fall in love again, and i'm sure they love me back.

Thats a guys point of view...

I think it's fine, as long as you have a relationship with the person and you won't regret it. I personally think it's kinda ridiculous to wait til your twentysome to have sex. humans were wired for sex, no? [people might want to eat me for saying that.]

but if you're going to do it, use protection for god's sake. Children should only be had by people in a stable marriage with means to suppost the child, mentally and financially.

It's okay only if:

1.) YOur protected
2.) YOu really love each other

This is 2008 a lot of people are having premartial sex...

I believe it is wrong. But, I also believe that most people arn't going to wait till marriage. Even people that say they don't believe in premarital sex 89% end up having sex beforehand. I believe its wrong and I want to wait, but will it happen? Probably not!

I think both people need to want it. There has to be love, of course, and you have to be sure. Once it's done, it's done. I think you need to accept that and not have any regrets.

Well, I believe that premarital sex isn't WRONG. However, there are certain conditions that should be, er, met before doing it. I think that you need to be really positive on who you're doing it with and that you won't regret it afterwards. Sex is a great way to show affection to someone you really love very deeply.

My personal belief is that sex is something that isn't the same for everyone. You can't put a broad "Don't have sex until marriage." Different people, different circumstances, etc. Myself, I really don't see myself having sex until I'm engaged or in a very long-term relationship. (I've kept my virginity and I'm almost 18. Go me!)

Age is also something that I consider is vital to premarital sex. I really don't approve of sexual activity for minors. Once you're an adult, I think you should have enough common sense to judge whether or not you want to have sex. I don't believe minors really understand the long-term effects of underage sex.

Like I said, it's different for everyone. Sex is a personal decision. You just have to live with the consequences afterwards if you aren't careful.

yeah I agree.
I mean there are people I know who have had sex with their boyfriends
and I told them "why dont you wait" and they will tell me "but I love him!"
and then like a month later their boyfriend breaks up with them.
and they come to me saying "that was such a stupid mistake".
I want to wait until I find the right person and I know that I am truly in love with them.

1.I personally want to have sex before marrage because I'm terrified of marrage. And I'm that type of person. (I'm a bad, bad, person.)
2. & 3. It's not nessecarily right, or is it wrong.
4. What?
5. Okay. : ]

I think it's fine, as long as you want to, some people never get married, so they're likely to have sex, and my friend lost her virginity the other day and she and her boyfriend certainly aren't married, but they've been datign 10 months and are happy and fit really well together, they trust each other and shizz. It's feelings and all that, I don't think you need to be married to show you love some one and are ready, because people get divorced and all (not sure if that made sense)...