I'm Bi? HELP! - Comments

Hmm, What the trick is is to tell her what she thinks of gay/bi people, and if she disgusted by the topic, then leave....

i went out with a girl
XD

Ive been through the whole thing you're going through now. I actually did turn out Bi-Sexual, but with some other girls, it might be admiration you feel towards her, not sexual. Just let it flow for now and see how you feel in the end. If these feelings are sexual and you are 100% certain you are Bi-Sexual, try and talk to her and find out few things before you jump in. If your parents find out, they should except you for who you are. You are their daughter after all. I was scared my parents woulnt except me, but they do get used to the facts because they know there is no way in hell they can change you for who you are.

Hope everything goes alright for you hun,
Sarah x

Awwww! First girl crush! *hugs* My advice is DON'T tell everyone you know right off, when I got my first girlfriend I told everyone and got into this enormous row with my schoolmates. It was hell. And it didn't work out because of all the sh-t we got from everyone.
Don't just drop it on your mom either, homophobic parents with bi children often restrict the poor child's activities as well as shun them altogether. Like my dad would do if he knew I was pagan.
Ease into this. Watch people carefully and make sure they love you no matter what before you tell them.
As for this girl, YIPPEE! I send you my brightest blessings!
Best of luck, love!

I'm bi to and for experience I say you get to know her, muse on it and all
see if it only her, try analize the whole deal :]

I would get to know this girl more, find out if she's a homphobe and find out if she's lesbian or bi...if she isn't a homophobe, then go for it!

dont worry too much about it darling, like people have already said,
if your parental units really do love you, they wont mind and will accept you for who you are.
Dont worry too much about it;;
things will fall in place.

xoxo-
Renee Anne

OK
So if your friend is a real friend she'll keep it to herself unless you want her to tell someone. Teachers do NOT tell your parents these kind of things in my experience.
And if your mum really loves you she will accept you for who you are.

It DOES sound like you have a crush on this girl too. Don't worry so much and just mull over it for a few days, there's no need to rush yourself.

~Ruthus
xoxox

hmm.
i wouldnt tell her quite yet.
you're going to want to kinda think more in depth about who you do like.
sometimes being jealous of a girl in some way, can make you wish to be around them more, or be BEST friends with them.
if you like her in the sense that you want to kiss her, then yes, you might be bi. It COULD be a phase though, i know some people thought they were bi and they discovered that they actually weren't.

if you decide that you are bi, ill support you 100% with the rest of mibbians. remember, we're always here for you :)

I don't think you should tell her.
I mean, chances are she's going to be freaked out, and that doesn't necessarily make her a homophobe.
Just chill out, take some time to figure out your feelings. You're fifteen years old. It may very well be just hormones.

*hugs* dont worry. im bi, and its a strange scary thing when you first think about it. first thing is to make sure youre cool about it. if youre bi, theres no changing it or fighting it for a peaceful life XD girls are hot, what can you do? haha...

anyway, so make sure youre fine with it. does sound like your infatuated, so urm... try and be her friend first. tell your mates, i promise theyll take it better than you think theyre gonna, they wont like... avoid you when its PE in the changing rooms, nothing like that is gonna happen. i thought it was, and nothing changed.

then so... urm... im so bad at relationship advice XD mention something gay/bi/pride to see if she freaks or shows any homophobic ness. itll prolly turn you right off her if she does, so ill say nothing there, just if she does...

okay okay ive got it. bring up some hot famous woman, like... "damn dita von teese is so damn sexy, id give anything to be her..." and if she agrees, say something like... "if i was a guy..." or "shame shes straight/married" depends on who youre talking about.

and they youll know if shes straight or not, and whether or not youll look a fool if you make a move. and if shes got tendancies (basically, if shes bi or gay or not sure) then you can make a move. and otherwise, its pretty much the same as a relationship with a guy until you get sexual, and being as you havent even spoken to her yet and ive never gone out with a girl, im not the one to give you THAT advice XD