The worst thing you can do is a lead a person on (trust me, I know from experience). Break up with her gently, but pay her lots of attention as a friend and be very kind. Obviously she isn't ready for a breakup and will be crushed, so you need to be the best friend to her you can be for a while, at least until she can move on. But, above all else, don't lead her on. It may seem like you'll be hurting her badly by breaking up with her, but you'll hurt her so much worse by leading her on. I had a situation like this last year with a boy and everything worked out fine... I hope the same goes for you.
July 6th, 2008 at 02:44am