Seriously?

Ok, so I'm starting a blog on here. It's like the only place I can vent without everyone I know seeing it.

As most people know A7X is starting a new tour in October. I have tickets to the Atlanta show that I plan on surprising my little sister with since her birthday is a few days off from the show. My fiancee is giving me hell because he refuses to take off work to go. I've already put in for the day off for both my sister and I. Hell I bought VIP tickets because this is her first time seeing them! Apparently Avenged became "our" band, according to my fiancee. I've been a fan for 12 years and he just started liking them a little over a year ago. I'm like stalker fan girl here. (okay, maybe not that bad, but I do love them.) I got him tickets for Nine Inch Nails a week after the A7X show. We are doing that together so it's not like he isn't getting his concert fix. I invited him to the A7X show but like I said, he won't take off of work for it. He's trying to guilt me into not going because he can't go with me. This is such bullshit. Granted I've seen them 20 times already, this is a new tour, new music, and killer stage set up! I am so pissed. How in the hell is this fair? It's not like I'm going with a huge group of people. It's my sister's one night away from being a mommy, and probably going to be one of the last shows I get to be in the pit for, due to him wanting to start a family. I told him next show they play around here, we'd go to as for a date, but no. He just wanted to make my life hell because I want to go to this show. I'll be gone for less than 24 hours! Ugghhhh!! Any advice?