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Thanks

No problem. I just don't think its fair for him to want to inconvenience you because he doesn't like her. Especially after all the money you're putting into it. Its childish and petty and he should have more respect for you than that.

Good luck with it!!

@ LettersToNormanday The tickets cost me $384 for the pair, not to mention what traveling out of state is going to cost. (Gas is ridiculous and we have to get a hotel room because we are leaving straight from work and won't get any sleep until after the show. We work nights) He doesn't like her at all. Her husband doesn't like me in the slightest, but I got his permission to surprise her. Thanks for the advice. I'm trying to think of a nice way to tell him to shove off. The concert is in less than a month.

I'm not a fan or a concert person. But I am okay with giving advice.

You're going with your sister for her BIRTHDAY present. You bought VIP tickets and he's trying to guilt you out of going? Sorry, but that's really ridiculous amd definitely not okay on his part. I highly doubt those tickets were cheap and he should be considerate of that AND your sibling's birthday. I mean no offense but his behavior about this matter seems childish and controlling. You two are not attached at the hip and if you want to tale your sister to a concert that you offered him to join you at then you damn well should be able to go without his consent/ attempted guilt trip. Remember, he turned it down, not you. And its inconvenient for him not you. So it isn't fair for him to try to guilt you out of it. Its one concert and she's your family. Tell him to deal with it.

Sorry, I don't take kindly to significant others trying to interfere with personal freedom and time with family. ><