What Characteristics Don't You Like in People?

  • CALiEJO

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    Arrogance, most definitely.
    July 7th, 2010 at 11:33pm
  • die Bienen Knie

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    I hate people who are really talented/good looking/ect and act like it's nothing - not self loathing or anything just overly humble I guess, like they act like their specialty is just something everyone can do when it's not and they should atleast take credit.

    I hate people who get in my business, trying to be nice/helpful once or twice is great but once I've declined the assistance, just back off.

    I hate stupid people who think they're smart. {like my grandpa told me that my teachers were lying to me that the civil war started because the south was leaving the union and that was a problem because 1) the south had a lot of money 2) it was dangerous to have a country right there cus they could have wars with them 3)it would weaken the union...he insisted it was all because the south was racist.}

    I hate people who act like since I'm not a legal adult all my oppinions are stupid and subject to change in 20 minutes and that my emotions are invalid.

    I hate when people assume anything flawed about me is a "problem" {as in if I'm late and skip breakfast I'm anorexic, if I cry over a legitimate problem I'm depressed and if I feel like a dude it's "unhealthy"}.
    July 8th, 2010 at 07:20am
  • vanete.

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    I hate it when classmates who don't give a damn about you or ever talk to you suddenly come up and ask if you're okay when you seem upset. If you don't know me, and I don't know you, why do you expect me to spill all my problems to you right then and there?

    I also hate it when adults hear that your age is below eighteen and automatically assume you're just like every other teenager; obnoxious, loud, impolite, and ungrateful. :|
    July 8th, 2010 at 08:04am
  • Last American Girl

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    I hate people who have to fill every silence.
    It's like "I'm eating. Shut up." or "I'm watching TV. Shut up."

    Just because it's quite dosen't make it an 'awkward silence'.
    July 8th, 2010 at 02:45pm
  • josh ray person

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    People who act like they're always right. They love to prove you wrong and gloat in the fact that they were right. And when you prove them wrong, they get really upset. If you can't take it, don't dish it out.
    July 8th, 2010 at 03:57pm
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    ^This, and especially because it's a thing I hate about myself.

    Although I'm correct 99% of the time after somebody looks something up.
    Shifty
    July 8th, 2010 at 10:54pm
  • pacific.

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    Emotional people. I don't care about their problems, I really don't. They can call me heartless all they want, it won't make me feel sorry for them.
    July 9th, 2010 at 12:53am
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    Dr. Sheldon Cooper:
    People who act like they're always right. They love to prove you wrong and gloat in the fact that they were right. And when you prove them wrong, they get really upset. If you can't take it, don't dish it out.
    Actually: People who just can't take what they dish out in general.
    I was raised in a family where if you do something, you have to expect someone will do it to you.
    I just have a difficulty with people who can't do that. No
    July 9th, 2010 at 03:23am
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    People who constantly talk about themselves, then when they ask you about you and how your day was, all they say is "That's interesting" and keep going on about themselves. If you don't even care about the answer, then why the fuck do you even ask. ._.
    July 11th, 2010 at 08:59pm
  • Pixie Sunderland.

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    People who manipulate you into feeling like a bad friend when you've done absolutely nothing wrong.
    People who make you feel the size of a pin.
    August 8th, 2010 at 10:25pm
  • Jackalope Crossing

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    Anyone with a large ego. I'm happy to hear some of your latest accomplishments but... there's a line that is all too often crossed.
    August 26th, 2010 at 07:39pm
  • bellamy blake

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    I hate people who are stuck in the whole "high school" frame of mind, that always have to have some sort of drama going on. If there isn't any drama, they'll just make shit up. It's so stupid.
    August 27th, 2010 at 02:25am
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    Overly-emotional people. Especially when it's constant.

    Condescending people. Especially when I know what as much as they do on the topic and I can poke several holes in their logic File.

    Yeah, I'm condescending, sometimes.

    People who try to change me. I am what I am, my beliefs are my beliefs, kthnxbai File.

    People who try to instigate shit with me, especially when I've done absolutely nothing one day. I was in advisory class one day, actually just staring out into space and thinking about things, y'know? and this girl a few seats over started talking about me to her friends about how sad and pitiful I am or something ridiculous like that. I didn't even know who the hell she was. I was wondering why she was talking about me when one of her friends enlightened me and said she wanted to fight me. It was a very wtf moment.

    Overly pious holier-than-thou people.

    People who think I try to act posh. No I don't; that's just how I am. Sorry I don't talk with a Southern accent like everyone else. What'd you expect? I'm not from this country in the first place!

    Fakes. Stereotypical popular kids.

    People that make me feel like shit all of the time, especially when I really genuinely like them, or if I try to forgive them and they keep treating me like shit.

    /rant.

    Edit: Perverted people. No, not the genuinely funny 'that's what she said' people, the type that cross the line. The actually offensive type.
    August 29th, 2010 at 07:42am
  • Gabby.

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    People who are so close-minded that they judge others based on what they've been told all their lives rather than thinking things out for themselves and finding what THEY believe, not what their parents or teachers or anybody else believes.
    People like my parents.
    July 13th, 2011 at 09:04pm
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    People who vent out all their feelings etc and then when you try to tell them about something that's upsetting or bothering you they just don't care. It's like, I listen to you talk all day about your problems and then when I need you to just listen to me you don't have the time of day. :/
    July 14th, 2011 at 01:28am
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    People who try too hard to fit in.
    People with bad manners.
    People who are not open to trying new things at all.
    Racist people.
    Superficial people.
    People who turn around and act like you're best friends when you know they've been bitching about you for two hours straight just moments before.
    Music snobs.
    People who think they're original but aren't really.
    People who let others walk all over them.
    People who act like they have a really hard life when they don't.
    People who take things too seriously.
    Over sensitive/emotional people.
    People who can't take a compliment.
    People who try to make a joke out of everything.
    Unobservant people.
    Overly insecure people.
    Overly loud people.
    People who can't take a hint.
    Overly patriotic people.
    Overly paranoid people.
    People who interrupt conversations all the time.
    Clingy people.
    Overly confident people.
    Ass kissers.
    People who get mad easily over tiny things.
    Overly sex-crazed people.
    People who over emphasise sarcasm.
    People who think they're open-minded but aren't really.
    People who are better than me.
    Sluts/man whores.
    Inconsiderate people.
    Cheap, tacky kind of people.
    People with no tact at all.
    Patronising people.
    Nosy people.
    People who moan and whinge about stuff but don't do anything to fix it.
    People who aren't motivated at all.
    People who are extremely slow to get jokes.
    July 14th, 2011 at 10:18am
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    twin.:
    People who vent out all their feelings etc and then when you try to tell them about something that's upsetting or bothering you they just don't care. It's like, I listen to you talk all day about your problems and then when I need you to just listen to me you don't have the time of day. :/
    YES. And then you feel like, I've been there for you for all this time, and now you don't even have the decency to be there the one time I need you? Confused It's irritating.
    July 14th, 2011 at 06:28pm
  • barely legal

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    an army doctor:
    Actually: People who just can't take what they dish out in general.
    I was raised in a family where if you do something, you have to expect someone will do it to you.
    I just have a difficulty with people who can't do that. No
    This describes my best friend in general. Rolling Eyes
    Her constant desire to always be right reflects terribly through her back seat driving. That's another characteristic of people I can't stand. Twitch
    July 17th, 2011 at 06:14pm
  • bellamy blake

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    People that are condescending and arrogant. I don't care who you are, you're no better than any other human being on this earth, so you have to right to judge them like you are and look down your nose at them.

    I kinda feel like people that spend all their time nit-picking apart other people and their flaws need to really take a step back and look and what kind of person they are.
    July 17th, 2011 at 07:02pm
  • cannibal.

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    twin.:
    People who vent out all their feelings etc and then when you try to tell them about something that's upsetting or bothering you they just don't care. It's like, I listen to you talk all day about your problems and then when I need you to just listen to me you don't have the time of day. :/
    This. I literally deal with it everyday with my husband and have had to since we first started dating in '09. He's trying to change though so I may catch a break one of these days.

    Also, clingy people. I don't have a problem with someone being all huggy and loving and stuff but I need space sometimes. I tend to get really bitchy when I'm not allowed to have personal space. Considering I spent most of my time growing up alone I don't take well to people being all up in my business or wanting to hang onto to me like I'm a doll or something.

    Sometime my husband also doesn't like is that I won't change for him. I'm happy with the way I am and just because he wants me to be overly sexual like his siblings doesn't mean it's going to happen. I will not change because I'm good with how I am naturally. It wouldn't feel right if I had to act like a different person in order to please him.
    July 17th, 2011 at 07:03pm