Don't ever, ever once think that you have a chance. Don't fall for her, but if you do, don't regret it. It'll hurt like hell but everyone who knows what's going on will tell you love always finds a way.
I would have told myself that all those kids were too young to realize that their words would have hurt me for all these years. I'd tell myself that I wasn't fat to begin with. Now it's a little too late...