Go back and tell yourself something.

  • burning.

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    Don't rely so much on what people say, it'll only bite you in the butt later on.
    Get good grades.
    Don't get so attached to that one person — they don't even like you.
    March 7th, 2012 at 12:19am
  • Lalonde.

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    Calm down, okay? It'll be fine. It's not as scary as it seems, I promise.

    Take your medicine, take a deep breath and go back out there.
    March 7th, 2012 at 01:52am
  • disasterologist.

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    take more advantage of tristan while you can, bro. he's a cunt and he's gonna leave, so at least get him to third base.
    make out with emmen in los angeles.
    get out more
    go to laurie's party
    March 7th, 2012 at 02:03am
  • losing control.

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    It doesn't get better, if anything, it just gets worse. But you'll live, so get over it.
    Just stay away from him.
    Don't eat so much, it'll be better in the long run.
    March 7th, 2012 at 02:12am
  • hephaestus

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    You should have deleted your Facebook.
    March 7th, 2012 at 06:18pm
  • The Dodger

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    Don't get involved with him.
    Don't let him like you.
    Don't let him meet your family.
    It just makes it so much harder to say goodbye
    March 7th, 2012 at 06:37pm
  • deathbed

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    Don't fall in love.
    March 8th, 2012 at 04:49am
  • Rooskaya;

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    Just because he's the same age as you, doesn't mean he's not a child. Next time listen to everyone else and stay away from the immature boys who, just because they are twenty doesn't mean they mentally are. Ugh
    March 8th, 2012 at 05:06am
  • Dave Karofsky

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    Don't waste your time on him. Seriously. Or at least don't waste your feelings.
    March 8th, 2012 at 05:34am
  • mater.

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    Don't leave school. Live a little, have fun, do all the things you've always dreamed about doing. Forget about homework and grades. In about three years, it's really not going to matter what any of them were. Just have a life.

    You were in love with her. Tell her, fucking say something. I mean, she just left, with a simple hug and that's it. I mean, really? C'mon, you know the feelings are there. Show her. Let her know. Make her realize that she's that one person who can really make you cry. Because the tear, that one single tear meant more than you. That one tear is important. And tell yourself that you have a chance, because you know she felt the same too.

    Stop eating. Just, stop. Now. Get thin, stop being fat. Just stop eating all the bad things. Mia is a bitch, but that's the path you will soon find yourself taking. So prevent it, find another way. Because it's not fun. None of it is fun.

    Don't go down there. No, just don't. Your mental and physical health is in jeopardy, and do you want to risk it? You were doing a lot better, really. Or, at least, if you do go down there, leave after the first year of school. Follow your heart, you know it wasn't their anyways.

    Don't fall for him. Don't talk to him, don't go into a room that he's in, don't do anything that he is involved in. Just don't. Because the truth is not really what he wanted and he will not accept it, so just save yourself the trouble. Find some friends instead, become someone happy and avoid the breakdown at all costs. The suicide threat will just show you what Dad's really like, and that's a cruel truth to face. Just stay his little girl and leave when things are decent.

    Show people more love. Show her more love, because she's not going to be here forever and not even I know when she'll be gone.

    Oh, and if you don't tell her how you feel that last day, then get over her. Right then. Realize that you won't stay in touch. Realize that it probably wasn't meant to be. Get over her and tell him how you felt. Something good might have come from that, because even now you still wonder, and it would be amazing to know. So go for it, it really won't be that bad. He's the sweetest, I promise.
    March 8th, 2012 at 12:23pm
  • traceuse.

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    Trust people a little more, lie a little less.
    And don't believe anyone when they tell you you're not good enough. Show them they're wrong.
    March 8th, 2012 at 12:30pm
  • hephaestus

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    Don't let him in.
    March 8th, 2012 at 06:07pm
  • daisyfairy

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    you're going to fall madly in love with a girl 3,000 miles away from you. she'll leave without even saying goodbye. but it's okay. no, you never really ever stop loving her, but these things happen and she inspired something within you that you'll never forget.

    you're then going to fall in love with your best friend that lives, also unfortunately, far away, as john green puts it 'like you fall asleep, slowly then all at once'. she loves you back, and it's wonderful. for a short time. then she falls in love with her boy. and you don't mind. you break up but still tell each other 'i love you'. it hurts. you don't know where you stand.

    you'll never get over your eating disorder or self harm addiction properly. but that's okay. you'll keep fighting. you start to count days, and maybe it's working. you can do it.

    don't forget to start writing, yes, i know it's only a crappy story about victorian asylums. but in a couple of years you'll actually get sort of good. it's your passion. keep it. nurture it. please.
    March 8th, 2012 at 09:45pm
  • deathset

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    When you know something big has to happen, don't hesitate.
    You will get left behind.
    March 9th, 2012 at 06:15am
  • dontcallmepuddin!

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    Leave that damn paint bucket behind. Ranting
    March 26th, 2012 at 05:26am
  • Lucy Anathema.

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    Go to Spain. Get out of the country and go to Spain with Kassidy and Raven.
    March 26th, 2012 at 05:47am
  • Little

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    He's a jerk even though he doesn't seem like he would be. Decline that lift home!
    March 26th, 2012 at 02:28pm
  • leaf's a buzzard

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    Just because you have a girlfriend that doesn't mean you should stop masturbating.
    I'm serious. If you don't get your sexual urges under control, they will get the better of you and ruin your relationship.
    March 27th, 2012 at 05:30pm
  • hephaestus

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    Tell him not to bite your neck as hard.
    March 27th, 2012 at 06:04pm
  • life in film.

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    It'll be okay.
    March 27th, 2012 at 07:57pm