What's The Sex?

ayanasioux:

Well, I did say for people who lived around a lot of black people. I'm not saying words are restricted to anyone. I'm saying that that's what most of the black people I know of say. And in the stories by New Yorkers and New Jersey people, that's what I see them write.

Yeah, I get what you mean. Just learning new things everyday. I haven't been exposed to many Jersey writers within my realms of reading, but hmm food for thought.

Wednesday Way!:

Yeah, I get what you mean. Just learning new things everyday. I haven't been exposed to many Jersey writers within my realms of reading, but hmm food for thought.

Maybe you should get to know more black people.

^I do know a good bunch and I have a good set of friends who are. Yet with what I'm into it's not easy to find black who are as well & well everyone is different, so yeah. I just feel like you have this generalization on black people on like this what they do, how they do it, and where. Yet, that's just my feeling.

To add to this thread what's your take on angry sex within fics & the pairing you write for?

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I love reading angry sex, but I don't write it very often. I have, it's just not my cup of tea to write. Not sure why. I can write BDSM sex, but don't enjoy angry sex. I wrote it with Pete/Ryan in After He Unlocked the Door. And Brendon got very, very angry and forceful with Ryan in A Closet Full of Dresses. But those are the only two examples I can think of off the top of my head.

I enjoy reading angry sex, especially angry Ryden sex. Writing it is simple for me if it's Frerard. I don't exactly know yet if I enjoy it personally, but spanking in loads of Rydens on LJ has opened a new door for me which I enjoy.

I love BDSM sex, but that's not considered angry sex, is it?

Depends on the mood of the people because I've seen aspects of BDSM thrown into angry sex. It took things to a whole other level, but they have to separate sections usually.

Yeah, 'cause well-written BDSM tends to be built on trust and anger implies being out of control. For BDSM to be safe you have to have the dom in control.

Yeah, the out of control is a little bit tougher to write. BDSM not so much. I've seen some strange angry sex where so many things come into play with the out of control-ness. The best I've seen was this really long Frerard I read on here. Gerard really just lost it.

I can write out of control sex easy peasy.

I write very loving vanilla sex easy. Yet, blowjobs are the most fun to write.

I love fisting. In stories. I love kink. Any kink. Cross-dressing, BDSM, spanking, toys, fisting, public, dirty talk. Anything abnormal I love.

I would love to write an enema fic but it seems like... I feel like it's outside my comfort zone. Would definitely need to work up the balls to write it.

Enema fics just seem way too out there for me also. Cross-dressing I've done as well which I had a lot of fun with. Bandom and cross-dressing is just too much fun. Yet, most of the abnormal stuff you don't see here, mostly LJ. Mibba needs like a kink fic movement.

Wednesday Way!:

^I do know a good bunch and I have a good set of friends who are. Yet with what I'm into it's not easy to find black who are as well & well everyone is different, so yeah. I just feel like you have this generalization on black people on like this what they do, how they do it, and where. Yet, that's just my feeling.

To add to this thread what's your take on angry sex within fics & the pairing you write for?

There's no generalization... why is that the first thing that crosses everyone's mind? I feel an energy in this statement that feels like it's being reflected from the forum about things you hate in stories.

The reason I asked these questions have nothing to do with "generalizations" but because of something I've observed over some years regarding black people.

Anyway, I thought about writing a femme like of thing, but, I changed my mind. It would be way too awkward for me and weird for me because I'm not gay. But, I will have a girl character in my story have a crush on the main character (who is a girl also) but that will be crushed because the main character is straight.

Okay, I feel stupid. What's BDSM?

This.Useless.Heart.:

Okay, I feel stupid. What's BDSM?

Bondage&discipline/sadomasochism.

Basically that stuff you read with the whips and the restraints and spanking and ball gags. Dominant/submissive. That's what it is.

I don't read that. (No offense, I just never have. Maybe someday I will.) That explains why I didn't know. Duly noted.

ayanasioux:

There's no generalization... why is that the first thing that crosses everyone's mind? I feel an energy in this statement that feels like it's being reflected from the forum about things you hate in stories.

The reason I asked these questions have nothing to do with "generalizations" but because of something I've observed over some years regarding black people.

Anyway, I thought about writing a femme like of thing, but, I changed my mind. It would be way too awkward for me and weird for me because I'm not gay. But, I will have a girl character in my story have a crush on the main character (who is a girl also) but that will be crushed because the main character is straight.

I write femmeslash but I'm not gay. I find femmeslash kinda hot, actually which is why I write it.
Also I wanted a challenge. And I believe I have conquered it. Plus the number of readers who read femmeslash = holy moly it's a lot.

I only write het. I've attempted experimenting with femmeslash, but it was an epic failure.

I mostly write m/f... but I'm thinking of writing more mixed gender threesome, moresome, that kind of dealio. I wouldn't be opposed to femmeslash but I doubt I'd ever write a strictly m/m slash. I write about what makes me hot most of the time anyway. LOVE kink, BDSM, power exchange, etc, in stories.