Weird(ish) turn on: When a guy is dominant, and when he recognizes and respects me as a woman. I like when a man acts like a “man” sometimes. Idk if that even makes sense, but yeah. Like, I know women can do everything that men can do. And I support equality and I’m down with feminism. But call me a flipping hypocrite because if I see a guy who defines gender roles and says stuff like, “Let me do that for you, that’s a man’s job” instantly my knees get weak and I want to bear all of his children.
Weird(ish) turn offs: The opposite of my weird turn on. I don’t like men who aren’t dominant or respectful to women. I get turned off if a guy is fine as wine, but complains like a fifteen year old girl or acts immature. There have been many guys I’ve seen that I feel attracted to, but they aren’t respectful to women and that turns me off right away.
The funny thing about all of this is that I have some masculine energy. I wouldn’t write that I am a tomboy, but I definitely am not overtly feminine. Usually the type of guys I am attracted to are drawn to girls who ooze the feminity of beaufiful, delicate flowers. I’m more of a green plant.