Body Issues?

  • ravegirl.

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    ^ It helps to find another outlet other than food.
    Try taking up a new hobby you can do when you get emotional, so you won't eat your troubles away.
    I suggest something like walking or running, or even dance or yoga.
    June 10th, 2010 at 06:20am
  • glamur.boi

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    I like my body :) I'm super tall and curvy, but I feel good. (I just wish my hair wasn't so thick :eep:)
    June 10th, 2010 at 10:53pm
  • purple haze.

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    I hate hate hate my stomach with a passion. I know i'm not ~fat but it's not flat and it really gets me down. I also hate my thighs, and my figure cus I have the hour glass figure, and yeah my hips bug me too. I'm a size six/eight top (depending on my boobs (32DD) as if it's a zip top or buttons I usually have to get a ten) and I'm now a ten bottom but yeah. I hate the way my body looks, I wouldn't mind so much if my stomach was flat.
    June 20th, 2010 at 01:43pm
  • myoneandonly

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    I absolutely HATE my body. Im 5"2 ans weight about 120 lbs. I fing myself fat while everyone arounf me tells me Im so thin. Im not! My stomach is not flat, so Im not skinny.
    June 25th, 2010 at 01:39pm
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    I either look awkwardly thin or puffy. No in-between. I'm destined to be an abnormality.
    June 25th, 2010 at 04:35pm
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    what the chipmunk?:
    I either look awkwardly thin or puffy. No in-between. I'm destined to be an abnormality.
    dittooooo. :|
    June 27th, 2010 at 06:06am
  • mayday

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    My thighs/ass are gigantic in comparison to the rest of me and it... it sucks. :/
    June 30th, 2010 at 09:33am
  • Emily Alisa

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    I've gone from 160 lbs to 122 lbs in just about a year; and no matter how much I lose, I still don't love my body or happy with me. ;//
    July 2nd, 2010 at 06:38am
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    ^ That's quite an achievement though. You should be proud of yourself. Arms

    I call myself squishy to make it not seem as bad. XD However I would like to lose some weight. My stomach and thighs could use some work, as well as other parts of my body. I want to start running again but we don't always have the healthiest foods at home, so that doesn't help. :/
    July 2nd, 2010 at 11:26am
  • UsagiChaan

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    I've named my stomach area Esther (Thank you, Wanda Sykes Coffee). I'm trying to lose weight for the military, but I can't find a way to do it that works for me. I walk almost every day, but it's not helping much. I wish there was something else I could do.
    July 3rd, 2010 at 03:46am
  • Emily Alisa

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    Machines.:
    ^ That's quite an achievement though. You should be proud of yourself. Arms

    I call myself squishy to make it not seem as bad. XD However I would like to lose some weight. My stomach and thighs could use some work, as well as other parts of my body. I want to start running again but we don't always have the healthiest foods at home, so that doesn't help. :/
    Squishy is exactly the word I'd use to describe myself too. But I have to ask, have you ever asked your parents to start buying healthier stuff? I would think they'd be proud and want to support you wanting to have a healthier and active life style as much as possible.
    July 3rd, 2010 at 05:30am
  • euclid.

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    Emily Alisa:
    Squishy is exactly the word I'd use to describe myself too. But I have to ask, have you ever asked your parents to start buying healthier stuff? I would think they'd be proud and want to support you wanting to have a healthier and active life style as much as possible.
    Huzzah, someone else who uses the word "squishy" to describe themselves too! XD

    And I have, but she and I both know that the healthier alternatives can be kind of pricey. And if it's just me we're buying for, it doesn't really benefit the rest of the family much because they just have a set diet because they've eaten like that for so long, y'know? I don't know if I'm explaining it very well, but in a nutshell it's either too expensive and/or more people in the house are more willing to continue eating the food we have now rather than change.

    But it really gets to me sometimes because there will be times where she's like, "You know, you need to eat healthier. You need to eat salads more often." But do we have any salad in the house? Hell no. -___- She insists I have to do it when I go out to eat, but it's not like I always go out to eat as well. [/rant]
    July 3rd, 2010 at 11:34am
  • Emily Alisa

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    And honestly, salads are restaurants aren't that healthy anymore. Bahaha I guess they still could be, depending on where you are exactly going, but for the most part the salads are no longer the "healthiest choice" when dinning out. ;//

    Yeah it can get pricey, I'm the only one at my house who drinks skim milk and I have to have my own half-gallon, so I understand.
    July 4th, 2010 at 04:27am
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    Emily Alisa:
    And honestly, salads are restaurants aren't that healthy anymore. Bahaha I guess they still could be, depending on where you are exactly going, but for the most part the salads are no longer the "healthiest choice" when dinning out. ;//

    Yeah it can get pricey, I'm the only one at my house who drinks skim milk and I have to have my own half-gallon, so I understand.
    Salads are only mostly unhealthy because of dressing that is put on them. Most salads without dressing wouldn't be that high in fat, You always have the option of asking what's going on the salad and asking them to modify it for you.
    July 4th, 2010 at 03:30pm
  • Emily Alisa

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    Well not just the dressings, but all the other little fun tid-bits that come along with it like the meats or cheeses. Plus you have to keep in mind the portion-size, over all, when ordering a salad you have to be very careful these days.
    July 5th, 2010 at 06:40am
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    ^I've only heard of the little fun tid-bits on the salads from McDonalds. Otherwise, you could ask for them on the side, if at all. And why would you watch the portion sizes of a vegetable plate? Unless it was something like a pasta or potato salad, you'd rarely ever mind how many/much greens you eat. Like veronika said, it's just the dressing you really have to watch.
    July 12th, 2010 at 09:02am
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    I can honestly say I would kill just to have a curvy body. Just to have a slim waist and nice hips in comparison. I'm shaped like a rectangle :/

    I just lost a small amount of weight after working out everday for the past month, and am trying to follow one of those BS celebrity diets, just to see if it actually works or not (it's starting to, surprisingly), but I still can't get over that I have no shape.
    July 12th, 2010 at 10:22am
  • veronika

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    Emily Alisa:
    Well not just the dressings, but all the other little fun tid-bits that come along with it like the meats or cheeses. Plus you have to keep in mind the portion-size, over all, when ordering a salad you have to be very careful these days.
    Well, to nit pick, not all salads have meat or cheese in them, and in a restaurant you can ask them to remove parts of the salad.

    I feel like people do have a least a little bit of choice as to how their food is prepared, all it takes is effort and, when eating out, asking questions about the food and what's in it. You have a right to know.
    July 12th, 2010 at 02:16pm
  • Emily Alisa

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    veronika:
    Well, to nit pick, not all salads have meat or cheese in them, and in a restaurant you can ask them to remove parts of the salad.

    I feel like people do have a least a little bit of choice as to how their food is prepared, all it takes is effort and, when eating out, asking questions about the food and what's in it. You have a right to know.
    I've never seen any salad anywhere that is just greens, they all have the extra stuff that is tagged along with it, no matter what that "extra" may be. However, you can order it plain if you desire it that way.

    What I was saying was, odds are you can find another dish on the menu with more substance (which will make it more filling) and has the same or less calories than the salad original would have in it. Plus, it will be more beneficial to your body and it's needs.

    But I do agree on the asking about how your food is prepared and ordering it the way you want it. Like, at most restaurants the vegetables are cooked in butter, which doesn't make the healthy side-dish so healthy anymore. It's okay to be a little high-maintenance when your going out to eat.
    July 12th, 2010 at 06:23pm
  • Emily Alisa

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    jeph.:
    ^I've only heard of the little fun tid-bits on the salads from McDonalds. Otherwise, you could ask for them on the side, if at all. And why would you watch the portion sizes of a vegetable plate? Unless it was something like a pasta or potato salad, you'd rarely ever mind how many/much greens you eat. Like veronika said, it's just the dressing you really have to watch.
    Restaurants serving-sizes are ridiculous, I'm sure everyone is aware of that. Main-course salads are quite huge and if your so worried about what your putting into your mouth that you are ordering a salad with just greens and some vegetables thrown in there like they were decorations with a "watched" portion of lite or regular salad dressing, I doubt your going to eat the whole over-sized-plate full. Actually, a person like that would probably ask for just half of the plate and have the other half wrapped up in a doggy bag. Which isn't a bad a idea for all over-portion-sized meals at restaurants because most of us don't feel "full" until all of the food is gone. Baha.
    July 12th, 2010 at 06:40pm