Oh, that didn't sound bad; I totally get what you mean. But just a heads up; I'd wait a week or two before going out with someone new so you don't get a bad reputation, or anything. That happened to one of my friends, and she didn't deserve the rep she got, you know what I mean?
Oh, my...this is a bit of a mess, isn't it? Well, I think that you need to see how much you really care for Jordan - or how much you care for him compared to Charlie. Charlie sounds so incredibly amazing; just about perfect. But you should ask yourself if you're willing to lose his friendship for a romantic one.
Even more fucked up, you say? Shit. I'm going to be on an emotional roller coaster thanks to this. Haha. Ooh, that's a spiffy title, Hon. I really like it. :)