Man has drums, man has you, perhaps you don't need a T-shirt with drums on it-
you don't have to wear his hobbies, instead he must like you more if he is taking time away from the drums, to be with you.
You are good enough as you are.
Or he is the broken one.
Needs a toolbox, not a drumset, for all those loose screws.
i've been working out non stop for the last 8 hours