one of my close friends, i dont know who, told my mom that i was cutting myself, which im not. my mom is mad at me, and thinks she cant trust me. then that same friend told my BFFs mom that she was cutting herself, she sort of was, so now she is like grounded. i really want to find out which of my friends would do that to my friend and i, but my mom wont tell me who it was. if i do find out who told, what shoufl i do?