Oh lordie, I failed at finding you. Turns out there are a bunch of different Paula's with your last name o.o just look up Bailey Fahnestock, that's not hard to find at all xD
and like most catholics and some christians have a thing against gay people and bisexuals and they say it's against God's will. but if God created everyone doesn't that mean he even created gays and bisexuals? o.O
hahaha i read your about me where you say you never wear pants and i just noticed after how long that i've never seen you in pants, only skirts and dresses. HAHAHA i do NOT pay attention :P
Sounds like you think that way I do! :) I totally know what you mean about talking to a friend, that can be really hard. The reason I was curious about your views on judging is because I have had a lot of people tell me lately to not judge and they have no idea what judging really is. It is kinda a sore spot with me, lol. :)