I'm not going to preach to you, but since you told me, I think I have the right to express my opinion about this.
You are fourteen; correct. He is nineteen; correct. Under state law, that is illegal. You can be up to four years apart in age difference but there has to be parent consent and no sexual contact. He is five years older than you. You might be more mature than people your age, but he is obviously less mature than the people his age should be acting. For ANYBODY that much older, trying to marry a person THAT young is a pedophile and that truly disgusts me. "Age doesn't matter." You both won't be saying that when he's going to jail for pedophilia. I'm not trying to burst your bubble or piss you off, but you sound extremely naive.
but yeah, i'm raised in the south but i'm being raised in the 'ghetto' so apart from everything, i don't talk southern/redneck at all unless my white trash side comes out & that's when i'm high or in a really good mood.
You are fourteen; correct. He is nineteen; correct. Under state law, that is illegal. You can be up to four years apart in age difference but there has to be parent consent and no sexual contact. He is five years older than you. You might be more mature than people your age, but he is obviously less mature than the people his age should be acting. For ANYBODY that much older, trying to marry a person THAT young is a pedophile and that truly disgusts me. "Age doesn't matter." You both won't be saying that when he's going to jail for pedophilia. I'm not trying to burst your bubble or piss you off, but you sound extremely naive.