Yeah, I know what you mean. When my ex and I first started dating, he cared more even though right when I first saw him I knew I liked him, he was the same way. But I never expected him to feel that way about me. Soon, we both were even but then I became the one that cared a lot more. He would say he loved me more, but I knew I did. And I was right, the last few months of our relationship, he didn't care anymore. He broke up with me 3 days after christmas (which was also our 19 month anniversary) thru a text message. I thought I was better than that, I guess not :(