Aha, nice introductory ;) thank you! I've been a member on mibba before, it's good to be back. Although I may be extremely slow on starting up again...
There's no wrong in that. Even once it's all over, memories are still very much alive. It's what you do with the memories that really shapes your future.
With someone you love, though, it'll be very easy to recover not just physically, but mentally, too.