That sucks.
I don't know about you, but I can be very aggression, so I'd say beat it outa him. It may be the smartest thing to do, I know, but it may just work.
Be Welcome! Read my 1st story if you want :DD It's called 2 Girls,One Love: an up-to-date love case, from my collection 'Chemical Affairs'. If you like Frerards you'll also like it.