okay, so a few months back i was in this relationship, i thought it was great, i thought everything was PERFECT...maybe to perfect. i had fallen in love with this guy, he was everything i ever wanted in a man... but then i found out that i was just his side girl...behind closed doors he had a girl friend of two years and a lil girl. i knew he had a daughter but.. i didnt know he had a gf. he was...