It will be hard to let go so easy, but what i had to do just to forget about him completley was think of all the bad times we had, or the times he hurt me the most, and use it against him. I hope that makes sense. But when i tried to get over my Ex and used that method,it seriosley did work.
But you really shouldnt hurt yourself over him, its not your fault he's being a jerk, Like i said if you truley care for him that much, he's missing out on someone true.
~Allways here for you Nicki~