no im blunt all the time. you get used to it. after the guy i like, a he likes me, last night told me he wanted me to have his kids, i think i can take bluntness...
i mean, ive been in that situation. the person wants to keep you close and not ruin a friendship. maybe she'll change her mind...but just stay close to her and dont push the subject. give it time love.
dont we all? i know its not much help, but im sure your a great person, maybe they dont want to lose you from their life. maybe they wanted to keep you close but not have the chance of breaking your heart.