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My married guy left his wife, he has been living with me and I'm freaking out.

Nice to meet you.

Hello.
I'm Shelby. :)

a new boy?! details....

I have one too ;)

I MISS YOU!!!!!!!

thank you for the picture comment babydoll ♥ you're pretty gorg yourself!

well that majorly blows. my life has just been awful as well. I feel so messed up, like I don't even know what's happened to me. the only thing that keeps me going is thinking that there are so many people out there who have it much worse than I do, so I have no room to complain. but still, its tough to keep that mentality. i'm a wreck.

and oh is that so? what about that boyfriend you had for a while?

Have you heard the new ATL cd?
The song Forget About It, and the part where Alex says; "You know there are some days when I really feel like this could work, like you and I are finally gonna get it right... Then there are days like today. Where you make me wanna tear my fucking hair out."

No words have ever been truer to me, haha because he makes me feel like im perfect then the next time we speak, Ive already screwed something else up.
Like its a rollercoaster ride, thats foresure.

Do you have sex with them or do you want to? Like, youre definitely one hot bitch, lol but like, don't give in if thats not what you want, if you do thats okay too. People grow differently, and people find out who they are differently also. Just don't do something because you think thats what they want you to do. Because if thats the only reason, they arent even worth it, they dont deserve you at all.

Awe, So youre kinda going through that, whole thing where you dont have a comfort zone, not with a bf, and not one with a fam now. Im so sorry lady, i am always here for you, i promise. Relationships are good, (And excellent if Nicholas Sparks wrote your life lol), but friends are great to have in those times too. Always gonna listen to you.

Which brings me to that other boy, hes your friend, and right now, maybe thats best, because what if yall did date and since youre going through alot, you managed to somehow accidentally push him away.. Pressure and stress does alot to people and it can force a relationship to crash and burn.

&&&&&&&&&&&&& are you worried about your ex being upset about yall dating? did it end under bad terms or just you realizing you needed to move on to someone with a future.

ps i didnt mention it before cause I was on that rant of advice^
But all my friends are like getting married too and having kids and all this shit and my boyfriend and i are just like, still in fucking highschool it seems like. But what pisses me off even more than that, is that he hasnt even introduced me to his fam.
And even moreeee than that! Hes selfish, which i am anything but. I am the kind of person that, i will give you anything I have if you need it, even if it leaves me with basically nothing when its done. Even when theres no payback or reward for it to. Its just in my nature.

Youre mine too!
Love you tons!
SO glad to have you back pretty mama.

Well my boyfriend is sort of a douche, all the time, or at least most of it. He can be really really good, but i dunno if it gets bad it gets really really bad. Like ive worked really hard to build myself up from that lost girl I was a couple years ago and sometimes he just cuts me back down to there. haha (That makes him sound super awesome, i know. lmfao.) But like, I just cant seem to give up on it.

Awe! So yall broke up because he was a jerk?

And,I'm always here for you lady if you ever need anyone to talk to. (ps, thats all I see you for too, sex. hahaha jusssssst kidding i swear!) You've got to be the most rad person I know, seriously. haha legit sweetest and bad ass person ive ever had the pleasure of knowing.

Anyway, so like are you and this guy talking or just friends. Does he like you too!
&&& day by day, thats the only way to live sista! Cant stress over the future, because then you'll wake up one day and just be like "Where was I all these years" because you'd have been so focused on what might happen, not what is.
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hahaha, um life where to start.
Ill be 20 on friday, and Im basically just working right now.
And I've been dating the same guy for going on 8 months now, lol. :P
Theres really not much difference. Just working alot.

What about you?

Thank you!
And!!! I am back! hahah I wish I wrote more/still wrote at all.
I miss it alot. & i miss all my friends.

haha same here girl! life is STRESSFUL. ugh, so many stories for you. is your life all work and no play now? :/ any new boys?

Oh my goodness you are friggin gorgeous. Seriously.
I miss you like crazy woman!

Cool :)

Its blue at the moment but i'm a natural dirty-blonde

Sounds sooo fun

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