yeah, I understand. But usually the case is the boy. He's ususally the one with the problem.
I have a friend who use to date this guy. they were a steady couple who had been going out for about a year or so... he cheated on her with multiple girls a month. It was sad. When she found out, she was so heart broken. I cussed the guy up one side and down the other.
then I got punched.. haha, but it was so worth it. haha
I don't mind. I like helping people.. just as more (or maybe more!) as I love people.
I understand how you think its your fault. I think that you might think that you weren't good enough for him so he went off and cheated, but don't think that (if you are)
if he cheated on you its his problem. I might have not known you for long, but your really nice. Plus I think guys can be very... hard shelled at times... I mean not affected by emotion.. They don't think... heck, I'm guilty of not thinking at times.. its gotten me in some real deep crap too..
night night!
bye!