Nice, philosophical. I love the idea of the tree, the seasons and nature.
So, if you are a tree and you are rooted to the ground what ideas root you in this seemingly endless cycle of love and despair? The seasons keep ripping you from happiness to sadness. How does a maple tree or an oak turn into an evergreen?
Why not try to become an evergreen in the beginning, know that the crushes may come, but keeping them at needles length until you are sure and then get married. Instead of all this back and forth, just a simple smooth path.
Thank you