Thank you @ sybilla1984! Vulnerable is exactly what I was aiming for.
@ AshleyVC88 I'm glad you see it the way I do because its exactly how I intended it but always worried Sean would still come off as the jerk when that was never my intention.
As bad as it sounds, I can't say I blame Sean for not wanting to just say okay and drop it and move on. That's a big life event that she omitted. I see her reasoning for it but still. Damn. I think Sean's doing the right thing about thinking this out first.
I'd like to point out that Bolts is Eric Boulton. (I may or may not have been slightly obsessed with Atlanta and he played for them for a number of years (as you obviously know) so yeah). :) I'm surprised I'm the first to figure this out. Or at least write about it.