Okay only because I have zero patience, Option one of question two! hahaha And you ish forgiven. Just don't stay away for so long, or else I'll bring out the whoopin' stick >:)
Do what my brother almost did: Set up candles outside her window that says "Homecoming?" with petals scattered about! OR Maybe have him ask her after the one gig? OR ...okay, I have nothing else XD WAIT maybe have him bring her food and ask XD I wouldn't be able to say no to food
And hahaha I have a feeling you may get a lot of votes for option one XD Who needs patience?