The Summer After - Comments

  • SecretlyBatman

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    The whole point of writing out my story is so that I can express my feelings. I'm sure you've learned that it's hard to trust anybody these days, especially in high school. So, instead of confiding in people, I write out what I feel. Some people listen to music, some people draw, I write. Of course, immediately after a break-up, it's hard to go back to what it was before the relationship. You can't expect it to just happen in an instant. There's a recovery period, where words just happen to fly out of my mouth, and I'm treating this story like life. In life, you can't go back and fix things and take back your words, so I can't go fixing my story. I wrote the chapter the same day, so things that were said, may not have been actually meant, but there are some things that just happen as part of the moment. I'm sorry if any of this offended you as the wonderful young lady I'm sure you are, and would like to genuinely thank you for your opinion and advice, as you have more life experience than I have.
    July 9th, 2014 at 07:23pm
  • nonofyourbusiness

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    Sir, I am going to talk to you from a more mature persective because I think you need it. Seeing that you still use "hatin' " as a word tells people something lol.. no comment on that one.But actually I love my life so it has nothing to do with me personally "hating" you or my life. I am sharing my opinion because your writting implies many things about this girl and I just do not think it is very gentleman like. Yeah well of course you do not say it directly, but beneath the surface, it shows your hurtful words that do not have to be said. I do not know you so I can not say much more than what you write, But I am just saying you should keep your feelings to yourself. Especially if you are going to include information like both of you being on the same track team. You are in High School... so I guess I shouldn't expect too much from a highschooler, since you're all about youth and immaturity right? well you're not as mature as you think if you're still in high school, so do not get caught up in yourself. watch what you say kid cause it can get you into trouble. Especially being a "Woman" reading this, it shows how dissapointed you are as well as how disrespectful you sound towards "woman" or "girls" how ever you want to put it since you believe you can categorize. Maybe if you want a girlfriend in the future, you should rethink and reread what you wrote here in a perspective that is not yours.
    July 9th, 2014 at 03:05am
  • SecretlyBatman

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    I'm not saying that she doesn't have plans. I stated that in the beginning we were both busy during the summer. I never said she didn't have a life, I'm didn't state it but she clearly feels like she doesn't have the time to commit to a relationship. I'm not blaming her youth. Sure it's a factor, but if she feels like she can't commit, then obviously I'm a little skeptical because it's a typical line to use, but I won't push her out of her comfort zone. I'm not saying that she has nothing going for her. If anything, to state that sophomore year is a "piece of pie" credits her with being a smart person who can easily fly through. The "awesome" thing was just comic relief. I'm not even putting her on blast dude, this story is just a way for me to vent and talk. If you don't like your life, don't go hatin' on other peoples lives.
    July 8th, 2014 at 12:09am
  • nonofyourbusiness

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    Don't you think it's a little childish yourself to be talking about her not having plans. It must all be about you? I get it, college is coming up but she has a life too. and why did you date her anyways if you think so negatively about her. Maybe you should grow up and maybe not blame her youth for all the wrong. You make it seem like she has nothing going for her, which I doubt is true. It takes two to make a relationship work, not one. I also doubt you are too "awesome" for her. Piece of advice? don't put someone like this on blast. Keep it to yourself because you just sound like a desperate douche.
    July 7th, 2014 at 07:01am
  • nonofyourbusiness

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    Don't you think it's a little childish yourself to be talking about her not having plans. It must all be about you? I get it, college is coming up but she has a life too. and why did you date her anyways if you think so negatively about her. Maybe you should grow up and maybe not blame her youth for all the wrong. You make it seem like she has nothing going for her, which I doubt is true. It takes two to make a relationship work, not one. I also doubt you are too "awesome" for her. Piece of advice? don't put someone like this on blast. Keep it to yourself because you just sound like a desperate douche.
    July 7th, 2014 at 07:01am
  • nonofyourbusiness

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    Don't you think it's a little childish yourself to be talking about her not having plans. It must all be about you? I get it, college is coming up but she has a life too. and why did you date her anyways if you think so negatively about her. Maybe you should grow up and maybe not blame her youth for all the wrong. You make it seem like she has nothing going for her, which I doubt is true. It takes two to make a relationship work, not one. I also doubt you are too "awesome" for her. Piece of advice? don't put someone like this on blast. Keep it to yourself because you just sound like a desperate douche.
    July 7th, 2014 at 07:01am
  • nonofyourbusiness

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    Don't you think it's a little childish yourself to be talking about her not having plans. It must all be about you? I get it, college is coming up but she has a life too. and why did you date her anyways if you think so negatively about her. Maybe you should grow up and maybe not blame her youth for all the wrong. You make it seem like she has nothing going for her, which I doubt is true. It takes two to make a relationship work, not one. I also doubt you are too "awesome" for her. Piece of advice? don't put someone like this on blast. Keep it to yourself because you just sound like a desperate douche.
    July 7th, 2014 at 07:01am
  • Very Cool Username

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    ayyy. thas mah cousin
    June 9th, 2014 at 10:49pm