I think life is what you make it. A series of actions and reactions. The idea of something predestined for you just doenst seem real for me, as much as I would like to believe in it.
I really loved this article, at the moment I'm kind of obsessed with Greek mythology and history...fate vs. free will is an interesting topic.....personally, I'd love to believe in fate or destiny, but I think it's just fiction. Free will determines all.