Everyone's a let down. - Comments

yeaahh, things like that happen so often, its a bitch just because you cant control what is going to happen. I guess the only thing i can say is to be ready for change. Because as you grow up, poeple change, and you will change and friends like these usually wont stick around. Which will be for the best in the end. and the saying is: chicks before dicks

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Haha, thanks, it isn't exactly like that though... I dunno, we used to be really close (i.e when she was upset about the other boy) but... we grew apart a bit anyway. I feel quite cut off from most people I know anyway now. Trust me, she's not as bad as other friends I have. But I didn't feel like posting about all that.

That's sad, I think I was like that, the talking to my bf only. But it wasn't only, and it was a big group of friends so you always had someone to talk to. But then, that's just sad, cause I know I still called them a lot and talked to them a lot. And really, it's not that they don't want you there, otherwise they wouldn't be near you ever. They wouldn't agree to go anywere with you or invite you anywhere. I have more guy friends then girl friends, so I had 2 girls that I was always hanging out with and talking to over the phone with. SammySuicide is right, she's BOY CRAZY!!! haha At least you know that you're being a good friend, and when it's your turn to be like that, most likely those friends will be there for you like you were for them.
Still, sorry they are acting like that, and for SammySuicides saying, for us girls, it should be...Chicks before D**KS!!!! hahaha :D
But yeah, talk to them, that's always the best thing to do. If they say you are over reacting then ask them when was the last time it was just girls when you hung out. Hope for the best, later. :D

that's gay. sorry. All i have to say is basically welcome to the club. i have friends like that. these days friends are whatever. well some. i mean yea of course i like talking about boys but once i confess who i like theyre constantly with that one guy. im like major B.S.! but no matter how fucked up it is i just ignore. idk like how many friends you have, i have a lot so i can pretty much hang with whoever. but find some friends who arent like that.

Also, I honestly don't think she's trying to exclude you if you're there walking alongside them. I understand how it could be annoying that her boyfriend is always there, too, but it sounds like she's trying to include both of you, to me...

I think this happens to a lot of girls around your age. I know it happened between me and my best friend when I got a boyfriend. For some reason, at first, the girl seems to dedicate to much time to her boyfriend, but with time she'll realize what she's missing out on by not having that time with her best friend, as well.

Also, a lot of times the single friend THINKS that their friend doesn't have time for them anymore, when in reality that friend is making time for them, but they've got it so stuck in their head that they'll be abandoned that that's the way they see it.

Have you tried talking to your friend about this?

That's wrong. She shouldn't ignore you like that. She probably doesn't mean too, but she is boy crazy. Maybe you should talk to her and have her look at yalls friendship. Isn't there a saying for this? Bros before hoes? It;s ment for a guy, but I use it for girls too. Tell her how you feel.