i know how much it sucks when parents won't let you get another piercing. i only have ONE in my ear. and i've been begging them for a second (which is all i want) and they won't budge. so i consider you a bit luckier than i am. and on the boys front...i know how that feels like too. to have friends that all the guys want and the guys that want you are totally wrong. but i just keep in mind and hope that once i'm in college, that'll improve.
Get the piercings you want now. Enjoy their prettiness for as long as you can because once you get older you have to get a job and employers don't hire people with piercings or they make you take them out and the holes close up.