Yeah i HATE posting my stuff on here, because 1 in a million time someone says something nice to be that's not chocked full of their elitist bulls**t opinion. This is journal is one of the only ones that stirred up emotion for me, because I agree entirely. I'm guessing that there are some people on this site that are very fragile and 'crying out for attention/help', and shooting them down with a nasty remark is the last thing they need. I also think that because this IS the internet people hide behind the computer screen which enables them to say inhumane things to others. God, i hate people sometimes. Sorry this journal just really really made me think about how much i hate when people do stuff like that! But props to you for calling attention to it :)
I agree with this, especially the last few statements. Sometimes I'll feel like posting something and then I'm daunted by what I think the overall response might be.
*sighs* Yeah, stasia, no one was bashing your journal. Get iover it already.
Sometimes the comments can be harsh, but in some journals people are really offensive, and then I don't see any reason to tell people to not be harsh. But, yeah, like you said sometimes it is a pretty innocent journal and people go a little overboard.
You know what I don't understand? Why people think it's okay to shove their opinions up our asses. Really. I mean, we're not shoving our opinion down your throat, don't shove your opinion down ours. And maybe we can all live happily ever after, deal?
If Mibba does PMS, grab a damn bucket of ice cream and watch The Simpsons. And not bash innocent users? (: And yes, though us women can PMS, our hubbies will always love us. ;)
I kind of imagine Mibba in my mind a very large group of friends, holding hands. (: Oh, and we all look like hippies with flowers in our hair.
Well, hello there. I'm Sandy. :D -friend requets-
@ WalkingOnBrokenGlass. You're right. People can be blunt, but I meant that some people are just too tactless, y'know? Of course - there are those that don't take the comments as nice comments.
It's just - a lot of people don't want to be proven wrong, it's hard to take your faults. But I guess it starts with the fear or getting bashed, sometimes.
It's a darn circle. Just - be nice and others will be nice to you. :)
Well, that's why I try to be nice to people, even if its something they should have been more sensible about. You can be completely blunt about something without coming off as mean. But, it is the way other people take you...even if you are being nice.
Then again, I don't know you; I don't have a right to hate you.
So you know what? Hi, I'm Abbie. And I love Mibba, no matter how many people think I'm insane/crazy, or if they just hate me. Obviously, if they're going to hate on you for no reason, they must not be worth your time.
I love Mibba, I really do. If I could, I'd hug all of you guys.
But to be honest, I don't think 12 or 13 year olds are the problem. I think its those that are too confident of themselves, thinking that just because they have opinions, there is no need to be polite about it.
We all come from different places and possibly a lot of problems. This place was somewhere I'd go to vent or talk with people that were similar with me.
But this place has become just another place that could hurt us. I don't know why, but people that hardly even know me that seem to already hate me - breaks my heart. It just makes you think that you automatically make people hate you. And no one should feel that way. Absolutely, no one.
I dunno; I think there was a time that Mibba was a very strong, united site. But that was probably before all of us 12 and 13 year olds started joining :) Sorry, guys. But I do want to thank you Mibbians for making us feel welcome...somewhat.
What can I say? I love Mibba, and all you Mibbians too :)