Here lets me add, Yes I am talking about Jinxeh & Dancing Caveman thing, & SlippersInHandcuffs - Comments

Well I never said it was privet if you can start stuff in journals then I think well all can.
and yes I did delete comments, ;B because they were the boy spamming my journal with things such as '8==D'
It is my journal, I read all the comments and I delete what i want.

v She lost the right of it being a private debate between she and I when she posted it on a public forum, and then actually challenged people to leave hate comments. If she wanted no one else to jump in, she should have PM'd me.

well its a journal and she can write about what ever she wants...this is between her and Jinxeh so get out of it

I get the feeling lots of comments were deleted on this journal
I don't think you should have called people out, if you have a problem with someone then why not pm or comment them personally?

Wow...

v Really?

Don't dish it if you can't take it. You said your piece, now let other people do the same.

omg she deleted my comment lol.

And how do rumors get spread in the first place? People say them, then other people repeat what they've heard, i.e., this journal.

Then aren't you spreading them by merely saying them?
It may not be intentional, but rumors don't have to be....

Just saying, sorry to butt in....

I am not spreading them. Its what people think. o.o

v Spreading rumors about me is just as bad. Even if it was about something that...makes no sense. I'm still wondering where people are getting this "friends with the mods" stuff from.

lol not about your friends xp about you

I have people tell me I need to say sorry, but to be truthful, I am not. I don't regret what I say. Whats the point of life if you can't say what you feel, know, and think.
I was not rude. I didn't cuss you out, and I didn't insult you with rude names.
I am only sorry if you can't understand that, which you should because you of all people should know that.

v And that's my fault how, again? Like I said, I don't control my friends. They make their own decisions.

Could that be because it has happened to me before with you? As I said I am not just pulling my side of it out of nothing.

That boy was trying to do that with me. I deleted most of his comments. lol
He was saying I looked like a man, I was like duh that's because I am.

The only thing that bothered me about this journal is what you said about my friends. I don't tell them to defend me, and nor do I expect them to. They're all nifty people who make their own decisions about things like that. I don't encourage *ss-kissing, and nor have I ever assumed I'm someone who warrants it anyway. I've told them off before, and they, in return, have done the same to me plenty of times. If they were really just "kissing my butt," I doubt they'd actually do that. We keep it "real," if you will, and that's how I prefer it.

Though honestly, I only have a few close friends here. I'm friendly with other people, and I certainly get along with certain groups (not mods - just saying, before that point is even made), but you made me out to seem like the Wicked Witch of the West, with dozens of winged minions waiting for my next command.

v Not exactly, no. But on any Internet site, Mibba included, sometimes the insults just go the way of complete immaturity. It's not unusual to see someone give up on well-formed debate, and instead decline to, "Lol, whatever, shut up you fat cow. Ps, your writing sucks," or whatever. It's something I've always refused to be a part of.

I don't much hold grudges. I seen your guys' journals and decided that I was going to comment on it. I just happen to know you more they just that one journal.

'making fun of their physical appearances / writing skills / other things that others are known to poke fun at?'

I don't, I haven't yet and I do believe that's what you were doing with your journal. Mocking what that girl wrote. ?

Yes, well. I'm working thirteen-hour days, now, so I don't really spend too much time surfing Mibba right now.

I don't single people out and hold grudges, honestly. I don't target anyone and decide, "Hey, I think I'll give this person a hard time about anything they say, from now on." Honestly, I rarely, if ever, pay attention to screen-names or icons when it comes to scanning the journal pages and finding things of interest to comment on. If something irritates me, I'll probably comment on it. If it's someone I happen to comment upon often...well, it's not intentional, clearly they just might rub me the wrong way about certain things.

Thing is, I am nice. Very nice, in fact. I don't claim to be all the time, but I am. Yet people don't pay attention to the times in which I am nice, even though they far outweigh the times in which I am more blunt. Controversy sparks more interest, and all. My good qualities are overshadowed. I don't mind it, but I do know this as the truth.

When I first started here on Mibba, yeah. I was a b*tch. That was before I really knew the rules, though. If someone annoyed me, I let them have hell. I came to learn the rules of this site, though, and I matured over time, and now? I don't see myself as cruel. I am blunt. I easily admit that. But do I ever resort to cussing people out, or calling them idiots, or making fun of their physical appearances / writing skills / other things that others are known to poke fun at? No. Nowadays, I do try to present my feelings, which admittedly are almost always quite strong, in a way that is at least somewhat tactful and worded..."professionally," for the lack of a better word. I didn't used to. I fully admit that. But we all change, and mature, over time. And I don't have to agree with everyone all the time just to be an agreeable person. Nor do I call out people by name in journals, just to rant about them.

THANK GOD, I have been waiting for your comment.
It doesn't so much bother me as much as it amazes me.
I write about you because I wanted to make problems, duhh.
But to be truthful, I just wanted to know what to you had to say about this.
And no its really not a hate journal. I just question your character, and why you are like you are.

To say I dislike you is taking it far, I just have always gotten this side of you. Besides ONE other time. Other then that you have been untasteful to me.

Aw, man. I missed this just so I could go sleep? Weak.

I'm not friends with any mods, just by the way. I guess I know several through the boards and such, but I've never received special treatment or anything like that. If I was getting any sort of special treatment, I doubt I ever would have been banned from journals before, or from the boards, etc.

And yes, this is a hate journal. I'm not going to try to get you banned for it - I have no reason to. Sticks and stones, and all that. I'm just curious as to why you even wrote it. You suggest I should leave the site if I am so bothered by anyone, yet you write a journal about how someone, in your opinion, bothers you. I can't say that this isn't all very perplexing.