Wow. I thought I had had the suckiest day ever, and no offence, your day totally blew mine out of the water. I am so sorry that you and your sister had to go through that. My dad lives on the other end of the country to me, I havent seen him in a year, but he calls maybe once a month or so. I now know someone who has it worse than me.
All I can say now is look out for your younger sister. You sound strong, but look out for yourself aswell. You guys are my heroes!
that is one of the sadddest things
i've ever heard [aherm...read] =[
i'm sowwy....